His answers became dry and short. What changed?
A shorter reply gives you less material, but length does not reveal warmth by itself. An answer to a practical question may be brief and complete; a one-word response to something important may leave the important part untouched.
The useful comparison is what changed in the exchange, not how to make your reply equally cold. If a question keeps going unanswered or the tone feels different to you, that specific change can be the opening.
The line you can send
Our messages have felt different lately. Is now a bad time to talk, or has something changed between us?
Yours will sound different
Bring the message you keep rereading. The first reads are free, and nothing is sent to him.
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