My boyfriend isn't affectionate anymore. What's happening?

Less affection is a change you can name, even when its reason is unclear. Stress, discomfort, resentment and a shift in closeness cannot be distinguished from that observation alone. The conversation starts with the kind of closeness you miss.

A specific request gives you something real to discuss, such as more time together or a familiar gesture. His response and what happens afterward can help you understand whether your needs can be met; neither physical affection nor distance proves a private intention.