He went silent after our fight. What now?
After a fight, a pause leaves the disagreement unfinished. A useful distinction is whether the pause was named and a return to the conversation agreed. Silence alone cannot establish cooling down, punishment or a decision to leave.
The next message can offer a time to resume and own any specific words you regret without surrendering the whole disagreement. If the situation includes threats or fear for your safety, support from a trusted person matters more than finding a perfect line.
The line you can send
I'd like us to come back to what happened. When would you be ready to talk about it?
Yours will sound different
Bring the message you keep rereading. The first reads are free, and nothing is sent to him.
Ask about mine